The Power of a Sisterhood Circle
“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” - Albert Camus
Let me tell you about my longest running circle. These women have been in my life since childhood. Proudly saying…that’s a VERY long time. We’ve been through everything together—marriages, divorces, kids, careers, loss, joy, rage, and reinvention. We live in three different states now, but we talk/text every single day.
We lift each other up. We keep each other grounded. We share the hard stuff, the beautiful stuff, and everything in between. We cry, laugh until we wheeze, or now a days, sometimes pee. Other times, we just sit in silence. That counts too.
Each one of us brings something different—one of us reacts fast, another the quiet reflector, one leads with passion, another with humor. I’m the reactionary one. They challenge me, broaden me, remind me who I am and who I want to be.
And we’re not just here to comfort each other—we’re political plotters. We’re loud, loving, and unapologetically fierce. We’re fighting for a better future for women, for our daughters, our granddaughters. We talk like sailors and let Congress know we’re not the kind of grannies they want to meet in a dark alley.
And listen, my sisterhood isn’t just one circle—it’s a whole Venn diagram of incredible women. Each of my three kids brought a new crew into my life. Think: years of playdates, sideline snacks, class parties, and whispered mom confessions during school assemblies. These women became cornerstones—fellow survivors of the toddler years, teenage drama, and the great mystery of missing Tupperware lids.
Then, as my definition of “mom” started shifting (hello, empty nest), I realized I needed to find new ways to connect. I joined a community mental health board—mostly because I care deeply about the work, but also because I knew I needed more adult conversations that didn’t involve permission slips. And guess what? I met more incredible women—smart, passionate, hilarious humans who made me feel like I had something to say outside of parenting.
And then there’s my art world. Oh, my heart. My little studio cracked the door open to a global circle of women who live and breathe creativity. Most of us have never met in person, but we chat constantly—sharing our work, our struggles, our wins, our real lives. I may not be outgoing by nature, but I’ve pushed myself out of my comfort zone, one conversation at a time. Now I have a little tribe scattered across the U.S. and Canada, and I’m even working up the nerve to plan meetups. Because these women? They make me laugh, they make me think, and they make the world feel just a little bit more connected.
This world is heavy. But sisterhood? Sisterhood makes it bearable—and it makes us dangerous in the best possible way.
If you have a circle, lean in.
If you don’t, start building one.
And yes, that can feel hard, especially later in life. It’s vulnerable. We’re not in college dorms or playgroups anymore—friendships don’t just fall into our laps. But it’s not too late.
Start small. Pay attention to the women who make you feel seen, the ones whose energy feels familiar or whose humor makes you laugh out loud. It could be someone at your yoga class, a neighbor, a woman you chat with in the checkout line.
Ask something simple:
“You seem like someone I’d love to get coffee with—would you ever want to meet up?”
“I’ve been looking to connect with more women who aren’t afraid to talk about the real stuff—do you ever feel that way?”
“You have great energy. I’ve been trying to build more friendships with like-minded women—are you up for a coffee sometime?”
It feels awkward at first. It’s scary to put yourself out there. But women are hungry for real connection right now. We’re craving depth. And you never know—you might be offering someone the very thing she didn’t even realize she was missing.
So start the conversation. Send the text. Ask the question.
Because sisterhood isn’t just a soft place to land—it’s a revolutionary act.
5 Simple Ways to Start Building Your Circle (Even If It Feels Awkward)
1. Follow the Spark
Pay attention to the women who make you feel seen, energized, or curious. If you leave a conversation feeling lighter or more alive, that’s a sign. Follow it.
2. Make the First Move
Yes, it’s scary. But it’s also powerful. Say something like, “I’ve been trying to connect with more women—want to grab a coffee sometime?” Most women will be relieved you said it first.
3. Join Something That Feeds You
A book club, an art class, a protest group, a local volunteer event—anything that aligns with your values or passions. Shared purpose is a great way to connect.
4. Start Small, Stay Consistent
One conversation. One lunch. One text to check in. Connection builds over time. Don’t put pressure on it to become your “sisterhood” right away. Let it grow.
5. Be Honest About What You’re Craving
Want deep conversations? Say that. Want to talk about life, loss, rage, and the state of the world? Say that too. The right women will meet you there—and be so grateful you asked.
Sisterhood isn’t just a soft place to land. It’s a revolutionary act. It’s the fuel, the fire, the comfort, and the clarity we all need right now.
So find your people. Then hold on tight. 💖💖💖
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